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🩼 Would a pet's disability change your decision to adopt them?

When Dr. Zoë Lumiere–Somatic Therapist, Spiritual Psychologist, Pet Grief Specialist, and Animal Rights Advocate–saw Fenix, she didn’t realize how complex his needs would be. She just knew she needed to rescue him. With time, patience, and a whole lot of love, she witnessed firsthand just how resilient and capable Fenix really was…

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💭 Would you plan your pet’s final day before you had to?

Jenn Roedig, founder of Sage Paws, used her love of animals and her own experiences of loss as the driving force behind helping others navigate life with aging or ill pets. And by focusing not just on the pets, but on the pet parents and their needs too, she’s finding it helps them be more joyful and present as they move through life together.

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🤷🏻‍♀️ Are outdoor cats really a problem?

Stacy LeBaron, a compassionate leader and feline entrepreneur since 1994, has a few ideas on how to address cat overpopulation in an effective, humane way. Founder of Community Cats Central, host of Community Cats Podcast (with over 600 episodes!), United Spay Alliance board member, and owner of two cat-only vet clinics in Georgia–Stacy has helped more cats, and communities, than she can count… And she’s nowhere near done!

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🧐 Do you really know what your dog is telling you?

When we understand dog communication, the change in their body language becomes easier to notice and that helps us, as amazing pet parents, support them so they can feel safe and comfortable, no matter what. And when it comes to reading body language, Sian Lawley-Rudd–ethical dog trainer, trauma-informed coach, and owner of Lavender Garden Puppy & Dog Training–knows exactly what we should be looking for.

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❤️‍🩹 Supporting remaining pets through loss

If there are other pets in the household, how do they experience the passing of their buddy? Do they grieve? Are they sad? Kate LaSala–professional dog trainer, certified behavior consultant, and companion animal end of life doula (to name a few!)–has some powerful insights that very well might change how we view the death of a beloved pet.

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🤔 When animal rescue *didn’t* help the pets, they did this…

While rescues all around the country have restrictions in place with the pets’ health and safety in mind, they may also be preventing a perfect match. And it’s these very restrictions that led Erin Handley, along with co-founders Mike Ezzo and Shaina Ward Siegel, to create Resilient Hearts Animal Rescue. Their first mission? Make rescue accessible.

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😔 What does your dog do when you’re sad?

“I’ve seen dramatic differences in people’s emotional states after bringing a dog into their lives,” says Dr. Carolina Estevez, Psy.D. Psychologist at Soba New Jersey in New Brunswick, NJ. But it’s not just their ability to sense sadness and come to our rescue that makes them so meaningful to have as pets. It’s the actions we actively take when they’re in our lives too.

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🙀 Can these cats really be saved?

No matter where you live, a quick search on Petfinder will reveal a handful of pets that are in need of a home. But what happens when the homeless pet situation is actually more of a crisis? When the amount of available pets exceeds the number of people searching… It’s time to get creative. And that’s exactly what Meagan Licari, founder and president of Puppy Kitty NYC, did to get hundreds of cats off the streets.

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⌛ Are the "Golden Years" their best years?

Having volunteered for rescues for many years, Alice Mayn, Founder & Executive Director of Lily's Legacy Senior Dog Sanctuary, had seen firsthand just how big of a difference we can make in a dog’s life. And when she met a senior Golden Retriever named Lily, her purpose became clear: become an advocate for senior dogs across the nation. 

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🤔Do Shelter Dogs Deserve A Second Chance?

It’s common to assume that shelter animals are “broken pets,” but what is the reality? In this blog we hear from Melissa Arbitman, a senior dog trainer who has spent a decade providing behavioral-focused training to dog shelters across NYC and has seen how trust and communication help them thrive.

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